Sunday, July 11, 2010

Not dates and whatnot...

Dude... ok so I met this guy and we've been out a few times.. I explained what we do to a few people and they all say we're pretty much dating.. and I say no.. we're hanging out. And they always say.. "well to me it sounds like your dating." Who knows?? The first time we hung out we went to have coffee and sat and talked for 2 hours. The second time we hung out we went to dinner at a diner and ate and talked for 2 hours. The third time we hung out we went to the movies and saw a mediocre movie. That was kinda funny cuz at one point he leaned over to say something and I leaned over too. He said it and I giggled and he turned and realized how close we were and kinda moved away. *point number one - he moved away* And the current last time we hung out we met at Delaware park at about 1015 and walked around the park and talked. I think there may have been a few times where there were "moments" but I'm still unsure. He made mention when I was talking about another friend that "you really need to hang out a few times to get to know someone before you start dating them." His voice changed and got a little louder when he said it like he was trying to make a point and/or implying something. After that we were standing on the bridge and like 50 fish swam up to us and he definitely stared at me a couple times. Later on when we were just still walking and talking we were on the little dock they have and I asked if he thought it was safe and he said "well if I fall in I'm taking you with me," and I totally blushed (which I don't do... a lot) and just giggled a little. When we ended the night he gave an open invite for the following afternoon which at that point I'd had plans but they fell through but he said he'd be at his house haha gardening and I could join him. The point that was made previously about him moving away is what makes me keep referring to them as "not dates." Because I'm not completely sure. It does sound like dating but maybe he's just a guy who really likes to make sure before he dates ORRRRR he really does only want to be friends. Ok fine I'll admit I do like him a little. He's a little more reserved than I like and I'd be the crazier side of the 2 but I think I've always been that guy in my past "relationships". So to end this rant yes I do like him (there ya go char). 100%?? not yet. On a completely different side of it he's semi-interesting. We'll see where this goes.. I'm willing to wait and find out. =) over and out...

1 comment:

  1. Maybe you are just "seeing each other". I have heard that term used before. And on a scale of 1-5 (1 being just friends and 5 being in a relationship) I think "Seeing eachother" falls around 2. Yeah I would keep seeing him and then when red flags start to go up that's when you call it quits. Everyone deserves a chance, right?

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